Marriage rule number 1

 Marriage is a gift from God. God wants everyone to get married but rule number 1 beat everyone and it delays their days of getting the right partner.

Rule number 1 of marriage.

(To woman)

- Never look for a husband, but prepare your character for your husband.

Most woman want to look around and entertain every man they see that they fit and they are beautiful to be woman material, the rules of marriage are not through looks, are not through availing yourself but the rules are into a character of a good woman. Woman should start minding their character and approve themselves first that their character are good for woman material.

We have see woman changing skin to be light and enlarging their curves and some parts of their body in the name of woman material for marriage. It is not your place to judge on the looks but your duty is to prepare your character and exercise your beauty to be fit for marriage.

We have seen many of our sisters who went to marriage and came out with divorce because their bodies could not maintain what they did at first by enlarging their curves and lightning their skin. Some they even when to gym just to be skinny but today their bodies are not the same because they got into marriage and relaxed because they are not used to what they did because all they did was for them to get married. Body changes, and skin changes but your character will never change. Wise man marry a woman of character not a woman of great looks.

(To man)

- Never look for a woman of your lusts, but pray for a woman of your character.

Man are weak in sight, and that is the greatest weapon of the devil in man, man are strong in looking and evaluate between a woman of good character and a woman of bad character, but when it comes to the beauty of a woman they get distracted and forget to look on the character of a woman. Man are the source of marriage because they are the one who confront a woman and tell them that they love them, and a woman comes with good looks to be in marriage and a man comes because of the looks and forget to check for the character, that is where the caos comes.

Man should start praying about the type of character they want to see from the woman they want to marry. And man should fix their sight to turn an blind eye to the beauty and turn an open eye to a character. Beauty perish but character will last forever. If man can change on how they look woman and start ignoring lust, they will marry without divorce because they will find a woman of good character waiting for the husband who will be after her character. But if man are after the beauty, they will easily divorce because beauty is temporal and it is maintained not by diets and skin products only but by happiness and good securities from the marriage. A happy marriage makes a longer life in the relationship but a bitter marriage brings violance and shame to the relationship.

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